The last two months of lockdown have served so many purposes for our planet and humanity. It has not been easy to accept on many levels. as the comforts and “normal” we lived with was taken away in a matter of minutes. The Mainstream media’s agenda is to push fear at us 24/7 and keep changing the narrative – which most people have been programmed to accept as TRUTH – to keep us under control. When people are afraid they are easier to control. The constant narrative change also means you don’t know who to believe or what is actually real and true.

Isn’t it time you start asking yourself and checking in with your intuition about what’s true for you?

Just because the media or your friends tell you something is true doesn’t make it true for you. Only you know what is true for you – so why aren’t more people checking in with themselves to ask? Because we aren’t taught how. We are also told to just follow the herd.

While I always try to be positive and share things that make people question this reality, many people are now going into the shame, blame, and verbal abuse energy. As an empath this is hard for me to live with. It is harder to live with when people you thought were your friends suddenly start blaming you for THEIR choices. Blaming or shaming you for having a different perspective or knowing about the world that they can’t access.

Somehow no matter what I post, my “friends” seem to think I’m responsible for the choices they made or how they have to live right now. So they blame, shame, post links to refute anything I share. As I shared in my article Did You Forget You Have a Choice in This Life?, I share things to inspire people or help them question this reality. It makes no difference to me what they choose. I’m not living their life. I don’t have to learn their lessons. I will also not take on their shame or blame or anything else they want to fling at me. Not mine. I am not responsible to fix it for you.

As many of us are moving more into this expansive space and setting firmer boundaries, it can start to be a lonely place. A frustrating place. A sad place. Quite honestly there are days it is hard to live with it all. However, when we step back and breathe, find a trusted friend or spiritual healer to talk to, we can more quickly move back into our energy and let the rest go. I do feel it is vital that we grieve, scream, laugh, cry, whatever our bodies need to do to release this energy as we keep transitioning. When it gets stuck it hurts and can create disease.

Over the last few weeks I’ve unfriended/unfollowed more than 300 people on various social media accounts. I’ve started blocking people who seem to live for trolling other people’s posts and start verbally abusing and shaming them. Even people I thought were my friends. That I’ve met in real life. Maybe that energy is fun for them. It doesn’t work for me. Thank you to all those people for showing me who you really are. Now I can continue on my path with less toxicity in my life.

 

When did this become an acceptable and ok way to be with each other? Blame. Shame. Verbal Abuse.

 

I think many things are factoring into this way of being for probably 90% of the planet.

  • Most people are not yet awake and seeing the truth of what’s really going on. There is a lot of corruption going on behind the scenes while we are safely locked at home that is coming out. Mainstream media is not showing you this because they have to follow the narrative but the news is about to break all over the world. It is going to shock you. If you want to know – start reading all the news sites that social media said were “unsafe. false.” Start questioning WHY you were pushed to believe this. Even Snopes is run by MSM to keep you to an agenda. Believe what you read or don’t. Ask questions. Come to your own conclusions and research more if you feel it’s necessary.
  • There is also a great awakening and shift in consciousness happening on the planet. We are all upgrading at our own pace. All on our own journeys. Some are much farther along and are aware of things the rest of the world isn’t and can’t be. You can only receive or hear what you are able to in that moment based on where you are in your transformation and life. The rest you will block or not see even if it is right in front of you. Your vibration has not reached a point you can see or hear it and process it.
  • Most people are grieving their lost lives/normal/way of being. Whatever that was for them. Some are grieving the deaths of loved ones. Grief makes us irrational and often unable to function in a higher vibration way than we normally might. Knowing this can help in how we react or respond during times of grief. In America and much of the world, we don’t talk about grief. We aren’t taught how to properly handle it or the complex emotions and thoughts that come with it. We ignore it and say it will go away after a few days. You know what – it doesn’t. You know what else? It’s OK to grieve what you have lost. At some point you will hopefully come out the other side and start creating the life you really want in this new reality.
  • Mainstream media, religion, education, government, has programmed us to be angry. Divide along certain lines. To blame anyone but ourselves for our choices. To stop taking responsibility for our choices and lives. To stop questioning anything and just follow the herd. Be a sheep. Is that really how you choose to live?

 

You’re allowed to set new boundaries & rules for your life

One of the spiritual teachers I’ve followed for years said in a class recently that her circle of friends is very tiny. Only certain people get access to who she really is. And if you cross her boundaries, which she set to live her life in a high vibrational, magical, anything is possible way – you’re out. That’s it.

I did some journaling around this and wrote a set of rules for who I will allow in my inner circle. You know what, it felt really good to set new boundaries about who gets to be in my space. It also opens up a new way for me to BE in the world and with the rest of humanity.

While we move through this transition, I feel it is important to examine our boundaries. Priorities. Rules by which we live. Whatever you want to call that. What is working? What no longer works? Who can you say goodbye to in your life to remove toxicity? Who should you allow in to promote growth and expansion of all that’s possible? These are choices only you can make. You have a choice to not stay in blame, shame, and verbal abuse.

 

What are you going to choose as your life now?

I invite you to journal on some of the topics in this article. What resonates for you? Where have you been afraid to remove people or energies from your life that drag you down and don’t allow you to create or expand?

It is not always and easy thing to let people and energies go. It takes inner strength, trust in our intuition and awareness, and powerful boundaries for ourselves. We are the only ones who can create our lives. We are the only opinion or voice who really matters in how we choose to live.

© 2020 Ancestral Souls

The current world circumstances have created many things for its citizens. Anxiety, fear, feelings of lack, financial difficulties, job loss or delay, mental health issues, and many other things on the “negative” side of the balance sheet.
On the “positive” side of the balance sheet, some people have chosen to take this time out from our old lives to create, explore, be curious about their lives, family patterns, genealogy, military history, and really looking at what they would like their life to look like when restrictions are released and we step into this new reality.

To help more people have the opportunity to work with me to help them explore their families, create something new in their life, or discuss other topics, the fees for my private facilitation sessions purchased in the month of May have been reduced.

 

what are facilitation sessions?

Facilitation sessions are an opportunity to work with me privately on any topic you need to discuss. This is not therapy. This is a combination of intuitive healing, energy healing, connecting with your higher self, Source/God/Creator/Spirit, and any other helpers who are there for your highest good. Throughout sessions I ask people a lot of questions they journal on later or meditation on. Sometimes there is “homework” for them to explore an aspect of what we talked about.

Clients have discussed topics such as: adoption, DNA, inherited trauma, creating a new business, relationships, meditation, healing modalities, choosing for themselves, removing blocks, writing, research, and more. The possibilities are endless.

 

You can watch a short video and explore the sessions  on the Finding the Answers Journey website.

sign up for facilitation sessions

There are three facilitation support options. Coupon codes expire 31 May 2020.

support resources

If you need support, I offer several options.

Facebook Group: Genealogy Ancestral Lineage Healing

Private Facilitation or Coaching: Finding the Answers Journey

Find me everywhere: LinkTree

© 2020 Ancestral Souls

As we navigate this worldwide purging, cleansing, and transformation on the planet, people are reacting in many different ways. Have you noticed this? It is almost as if people have forgotten we are allowed to be different. We are allowed to have different beliefs. This country was founded on people having different beliefs and we were given the rights to this. Yet, the longer the worldwide lockdown goes, the more division we see. The more anger, verbal abuse, and hate we see popping up online -from people who IN REAL LIFE would never say those things to us.

My role here is to invite you to question your beliefs and look at where you function from. Agree with what I pose here or don’t. Like the questions or don’t. Choose to shift into a different energy or don’t.  Keep me as a contact/family member/friend or don’t. It doesn’t matter to me. It’s all a choice.  You have a choice in how you live your life. I’m here to present questions and options. You do what you want. I’m going to create my life in a way that is true for my heart and soul whether you agree with how I do it or not.

It’s all a choice.

 

people have forgotten they have a choice

  • Have you noticed how people we once thought of as family who loved us react in abusive, hateful ways to things we say or post online because our beliefs and choices do not align with theirs?
  • Have you noticed how people we once considered intelligent critical thinkers follow the herd and fear based information and go after anyone who posts something that contradicts their beliefs?
  • Have you noticed people who are FB friends or contacts on other platforms who never interact with you are suddenly trolling your posts to just verbally puke on you because you don’t align with their beliefs? Do they get all excited over trolling posts? That’s a destructive energy they are playing in. Do you like that energy?
  • Have you noticed how people we thought were one thing (because we labeled them as such) are really so much more?
  • Have you noticed you are not alone in your beliefs – that there are people out there who get you and you can be a support to each other?
  • Is there anything else you have noticed I didn’t mention?
  • Have you been surprised at who has come out to attack you because you believe something different? Or that you share something alternative to mainstream media/herd mentality beliefs and brainwashing?
  • Have you noticed there is a serious divide about those who believe the herd mentality that EVERYONE should stay home because of a virus that is not as deadly as the flu BUT because the media told you it will kill you – you believe it? Have you noticed no one ever cared about the numbers of people who die on a daily basis NO MATTER WHAT is happening on the planet but are VERY upset about the virus deaths? Does this mean those other deaths never mattered?

you have a choice in how you react or respond

EVERYONE has a choice in how the react or respond to things that frazzle their brain. Create cognitive dissonance. Go against their ingrained beliefs. Yet with the domination of censorship and an agenda to create fear, division, hate, and anger on all media channels both online and offline, people have allowed themselves to be conditioned (brainwashed) into believing their way/beliefs are the only ones allowed. People in general stopped questioning things they intuitively know are wrong or go against their beliefs.

What else contributes to this? Constant violence and sex glorification/abuse we see everywhere we look. People don’t even question it most of the time – they just say PRAY FOR… rather than doing anything to change things. The violence and sex continue to create fear based responses and PTSD type triggers in us. It changes our bodies, brains, nervous systems, responses and reactions to things. Sometimes we don’t even realize it has happened until we blow up or get really sick because the programming of society has been a slow constant drip for decades.

No one questions it. But it has left people in fight or flight states often and they forgot they had a choice in how they respond, react, or live their lives.

We all have a choice in how we live our lives. Who we allow to be in our space. What choices we make. What we believe to be TRUE for us. It doesn’t matter what other people think.

 

how do we change this?

Change starts with each of us individually.

  1. We need to start looking at our own beliefs and responses. Ask the hard questions about WHY do we respond or react this way? What happened to us throughout our lives that created this “monster” inside us that feels it has to lash out at anything different?
  2. Ask yourself why you feel the need to troll people’s social media so you can “feel good” about how much hate and verbal abuse you spew at them because they disagree with what you believe. Get real with it and start to change it.
  3. Look at your family history. We all inherit trauma from our ancestors going back several generations. Sometimes our reactions to things are so decontextualized we don’t even know why we react or respond in a certain way. This is good to acknowledge and start to work on to release.
  4. We need to start doing our inner work to allow the dark parts of ourselves, the fear based parts, and the wounded parts to surface. Once things go from unconscious to conscious, we can look at them, heal and release them. DARK TO LIGHT.
  5. How do we do this? Some people rely on religion and faith. Others doing energy healing or spiritual work. There are more than a hundred different modalities to help shift your beliefs and energy and release the past. There are many different options and a lot of information online and in books and classes to explore.

We are moving into a new era of life on this planet. One in which we will have greater freedoms, greater choice, more equality, and more options to create the life we truly desire. The questions for you are:

  1. What kind of life do you really want to live?
  2. What kind of energy do you want to play in?
  3. What kind of people do you want in your life – those who help keep you in fear-based and negative living or those who help raise you up and support you to create something greater?

Please share this article widely so more people will consider their choices.

support resources

If you need support, I offer several options.

Facebook Group: Genealogy Ancestral Lineage Healing

Private Facilitation or Coaching: Finding the Answers Journey

Find me everywhere: LinkTree

© 2020 Ancestral Souls

Transformation

How are you doing in this new year and decade? What is shifting for you? What new things have shown up? Where have you let go?

These are important questions to sit with as we navigate this fast-changing life we are now living.

To learn more about the free webinar on ancestral healing I mentioned, check it out here.

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© 2020 Ancestral Souls